Friday, October 28, 2011

Love at Bus stand!



Love at Bus stand!



Sitting with my friends in Aryan’s Santro, next to the City Bus , I was enjoying the rain at the bus stop. Aryan was on the driver’s seat, next to me, and Dhruv behind us on the back seat. Windows of his car opened when he pressed the appropriate button.
Kriya was standing by Aryan’s side. Well, Kriya is Aryan’s girlfriend, and none other than, once upon a time, my so called best friend.
She greeted him with a “Hi”.
Dhruv opened his window,
“Hi” she greeted Dhruv almost surprised to see him with us that day.
"Hi, How’re you doing?” Dhruv asked her.
“I’m fine,” she said.
I didn’t bother to look at her, and so did she. Aryan was engrossed in chatting with her, When she looked at me and said “Hi Arjun”.
“So you finally recognized me huh?” I asked in exasperation.
Making reason was what she was good at, and she came up with one.

Suddenly my cell phone beeped. I got it out of my pocket, in a hurry to check out who it was. It was Shilpa, my irritating girl friend, who was too possessive about me. Keeping my phone on the desk of the car, I looked outside the window. Something unusual happened, When my eyes fell on someone wearing a rain coat, who co-incidentally looked at me. Her eyes were beautiful, and so was she. Both of us were gazing at each other, as she was walking towards the bus. She was really gorgeous, with that pretty eyes, may be her mascara made it more beautiful, fair complexion, and was as tall as me probably.
We kept looking into the eyes of each other, as if it was the eye gazing game we were playing, till she got into the bus. And then, She took off her rain coat cap. She seemed as if she was the only beautiful girl I ever came across, in my entire life. I wanted to know her, talk to her, get acquainted with her, But I didn’t wanted to be a despo in front of my friends.
The bus was about to start, Kriya bid a good bye to all of us and left. Aryan started the car, drove it as fast as he could, as Dhruv was already late for a date.
But nothing actually bothered me at that time, as I was busy in my own thoughts about the girl, I’d just seen a few minutes back. She was attractive, indeed. I was attracted to her. But many a times in life , you come across people who lure you by their charm and beauty, but moments are more than enough to make you happy and satifsfy your heart.
Happiness is all about enjoying and living the present moment. But certain things do lay an impact on our lives,  don't they? And so did she. Yes, She left me craving for her. But it’s all over. She’s gone. Or may be it’s just the beginning.

To be continued…

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Handling rejection!


It’s never the end when she denies your proposal, but just the beginning of your life.But it depends completely on you, how you end up!
Most often confused teens suffering from infatuation, end up smoking packs of cigarette and hanging around bars, explaining people the Devdas crap, or rather the same break up stories, or how they were dumped or rejected.

”Hum ek baar jeete hai, ek baar marte hai, shaadi bhi ek baar hoti hai, aur pyar, Pyar bhi ek baar hota hai!”
Rahul said to Anjali (Kuch Kuch Hota hai).
I don’t really remember how many times I’ve seen this movie, but this dialogue struck my mind, and I learnt a lesson, that never does Rahul puts an end to his life, neither does Anjali but both of them get into a love life again.

Then Why do teens,often lead to self destructive activities and screw up their lives, just because they can’t handle a rejection? But instead they should learn to handle rejection and understand that whatever happens, is for a beneficial reason, and there’s something better than that, waiting for you.

Just fulfill your dreams, Live for the people who love you, your parents who gave you thus beautiful life,as you get it just once.
J
All I can say is just wait for the right things to happen at the right time, as there is always a way out! And there’s always some one made for you
J

Love vs Friendship!

Love! Makes the world go round…

Love is just more than a word and lot more than you usually think. People often restrict their thoughts about Love that it concerns only the relation existing between a guy and a girl. This is the biggest ever misconception about love, people have. Love includes the care that a mother has for her child, that her brother has for his sister and a husband for his wife.

Friendship is just more than a feeling, an emotion, a deep thought, and a bond of security and love. We often don’t have words to express friendship All I can say is friendship often starts with a little amount of self interest, and ends up as an unbreakable bond.
But trust me friends, You can’t compare love and friendship. Friendship is the most inevitable part of life and so is love. There is no love without friendship and no friendship without love. The previous line itself states how important both Love and friendship are in our lives.
I request the youth of present generation, playing and fooling around with the word love and friendship, breaking relations, to avoid doing so, and respect the most wonderful feeling of the world. Love and friendship are just bifurcated into two words which has the same meaning and the same feeling.