Should I text her or not?

It happens that when you truly like a person, you think a million times even before texting that person. It’s a natural tendency. That shows you really like the person. Every time your phone beeps, your heart skips a beat. Most often, it turns out to be someone else and not the person you assumed or anticipated it to be. And every time you see that the sender is not who you expected it to be, your face droops, clearly depicting your sadness.

Every time you see her Whatsapp profile which says ‘online’ or ‘last seen online a minute ago’, you feel a strong urge to text her, but you keep yourself from texting her thinking of what she would think about you. What if she finds you desperate? What if she is annoyed by your texts? What if she thinks you are trying to flirt with her? There are so many questions that crop up in your shitty head which hinder you from texting her.

But it’s for you to figure out what you have to do, for you are the master of your fate, and you are the captain of your soul. I don’t remember who said the above line, but someone did. But what I want to say is it’s entirely up to you if you want to make the first move. Had you been flirting around, you’d have easily texted her, ignored her texts in order to make her crave for you. She would in turn get attracted to you. But it’s different when you truly, honestly and genuinely love the person and cannot afford to lose her because of your silly and immature behavior.

Well, when you face such a dilemma, you should just do what you feel like doing. If you’re a guy, what are you waiting for? You should text first. She might even be waiting for your text. You never know. She would be pertaining to the thought that she’s a girl and she shouldn't be texting first, but should rather wait for your text. So, just go ahead and text her. Make sure you don’t keep on bugging her if she isn't responding. It shows desperation and you might end up as someone who is boring and needy. I know you feel the urge to text instantly when she texts you, but taking some time isn't a bad idea.

And if you’re a girl, and you are waiting for him to text you first, boooom, it’s 2013. There’s no harm in texting him first. It isn't a sin. 
You can always make the first move. He wouldn't think you are desperate or you badly want him. It would come out as just a friendly text if you keep it so. And if the guy doesn’t respond, screw him; there are too many fishes in the sea(including me  ). And if he takes time to reply, try doing the same. It’s a different thing that people wait for replies and sleep off when one really gets a reply. And the next morning, you are frustrated because you slept off while you’d got such a beautiful reply from him/her. 

So, what are you waiting for? Go text that person! 

P.S-I would be waiting for her text, although I am sure I wouldn't be receiving any.